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    Tuesday, July 29, 2008
    Battle not with monsters
    lest ye become a monster
    and if you gaze into the abyss
    the abyss gazes into you.

    -Friedrich Nietzsche-

    www.tips-fb.com Believe

    Another day has passed by and yet I am still not moving anywhere. I just finished attending a 1.5 day session on intelectual properties and yes, now I understand the meaning of pattern, trademark, copyright and industrial design. and yes, it is a very good thing to know and i believe at some point in my life later, I would actually be using this knowledge.. someday.

    And tomorrow will be another public holiday, the 'israk-mikraj'.

    It was the event of Israk and Mikraj, which took place on the 27th day of Rejab (621 C.E.) and which saw the Prophet's journey by night from Makkah to Jerusalem and his ascension thereafter to the Throne of Allah. The event was significantly illustrative of a number of aspects which are very relevant to the life of man today, two of the more important ones being:

    1 The regulation of life in akidah (belief).

    2 The regulation of life in akhlak (morality).

    Israk and Mikraj began with the splitting of the Prophet's chest which was immediately cleaned with zam zam water and then filled with wisdom and faith before his ascension to heaven to appear before Allah. The event is of special significance in that the cleansing of the Prophet's heart, which preceded his journey to meet Allah, is akin to the expression of repentance by his disciples in atonement for their sins.

    The life of a Muslim who is travelling along the path of Allah begins with repentance. No other act or expression surpasses repentance to atone for one's sins, provided it is expressed sincerely. Allah says.

    "O you who believe! Turn to Allah with sincere repentance." (66 : 8)

    The disciples of Islam are exhorted to repent as much as they can, for repentance represents the first rung of the ladder in one's climb to the apex of glory before Allah. In other words, the first step towards our ultimate goal, namely Allah, is to beseech Allah for His forgiveness. Indeed, the high and glorious position attained by the Prophet was, as we have seen, preceded by the cleansing of the soul.

    taken from Cyber Mimbar

    I am not a pious person nor having an in depth understanding of Islam itself, but I try my best to let the Islamic light entered my heart. I don't want to be a Muslim just because I was born as one but I wanna love Islam for its beauty and learn and understanding all the Islamic concept which nowadays are tainted with extremist, politicians and those who used Islam for their own personal gain.

    Well, as for tomorrow, finally I could go and service my car and maybe when fishing in the evening.

    Ahh... such a dull day today...

    www.tips-fb.com Behind that perfect smile

    Friday, July 25, 2008



    taken from Animea.net

    www.tips-fb.com Rindu

    Thursday, July 24, 2008
    Tiba- tiba tercuit rasa rindu yang amat mendalam buat teman-temanku di KL. Sememangnya suasana di sini amat berbeza dari kehidupanku dahulu. Memang aku yang menginginkan perubahan ini, tapi atas alasan pelbagai perspeksi negatif orang membuatkan aku mendambakan keriuhan KL dan lari dari ketenangan kampung yang penuh dengan hipokrasi. Percayalah, kehidupan di kampung bukanlah seindah yang dibayangkan dilayar-layar perak. Manusia di mana-mana sahaja sama, namun kesempitan pemikiran segelintir manusia yang masih melihat diri mereka lebih agung berbanding manusia lain, lantas dengan mudah merendahkan martabat orang lain, mencemar kehidupan damaiku sekarang.

    Dear friends, how I miss all of you...

    www.tips-fb.com Perihal Mengumpat

    Wednesday, July 23, 2008
    JENIS-JENIS MENGUMPAT YANG DIBOLEHKAN :

    Sebagaiamana kita sama maklum bahawa hukum mengumpat adalah haram. Mengumpat ialah menceritakan tentang aib atau keburukan seseorang yang apabila orang tersebut mendengarnya maka ia akan marah dan benci.

    Dalam hal ini Imam An Nawawy dalam kitabnya Riyadhus Salihin berkata: Ketahuilah bahawa mengumpat adalah dibolehkan atas sebab-sebab tertentu dan mengikuti lunas-lunas syara’ (agama), jika sesuatu yang penting tidak mungkin tercapai kecuali dengannya. Mengumpat yang diperbolehkan-oleh agama itu ada enam jenis:

    1) KES PENGANIAYAAN.

    Dibolehkan kepada orang yang dianiaya untuk mengadu kepada pihak berkuasa seperti Sultan, Qadhi atau lain-lain pihak yang mempunyai kuasa untuk memberi keinsafan dan kesedaran kepada orang yang menganiaya itu. Umpamanya: Si Polan itu telah menganiaya saya begini dan begitu.

    2) MOHON BANTUAN MENCEGAH KEMUNGKARAN.

    Umpamanya seseorang berkata kepada pihak polis atau bahagian pencegah maksiat: Si Polan itu telah berbuat perkara sumbang, tolong tuan cegah perkara tersebut. Maksud orang itu ialah menjadikan pihak berkuasa sebagai orang tengah untuk mencegah kemungkaran. Tetapi jika tidak dengan maksud itu maka hukumnya adalah haram.

    3) MINTA FATWA.

    Umpamanya ia berkata kepada mufti atau orang yang dipercayai boleh memberi fatwa: Ayah saya atau saudara saya atau suami saya telah menganiaya saya, adakah dia boleh berbuat demikian terhadap saya, bagaimana cara supaya saya dapat terhindar dari penganiayaannya. Perkara ini dibolehkan kerana hajat. Tetapi adalah lebih baik sekiranya dengan cara sindiran sudah tercapai tujuannya. Namun demikian menyebut nama orang yang menzalimi adalah dibolehkan sebagaimana dalam kisah Hindon diatas.

    4) MENGAJAK MUSLIMIN AGAR BERSIKAP BERHATI-HATI.

    Umpamanya: Kita menyebut tentang keaiban periwayat hadis seperti si polan pendusta, tidak amanah, kurang kuat ingatannya dan lain-lain. Perkara ini dibolehkan kerana tujuan kita berbuat demikian semata mata ingin menjaga keaslian hadis Rasulullah saw. Sebab tanpa berbuat demikian maka akan terdedahlah hadis Rasul saw dengan pemalsuan. Atau paling kurang supaya orang ramai jangan sampai menyangka hadis hadis tersebut sebagai hadis yang sahih. Apalagi jika orang berkenaan sememangnya orang yang suka memalsukan hadis. Dan menyatakan keaiban orang lain ini juga boleh jika kita diminta pandangan tentang peribadi seseorang yang akan menjadi rakan kongsi perniagaan , atau menitipkan amanah , atau urusan perkahwinan , demikian juga tentang berjiran dan sebagai.

    5) JIKA MELAKUKAN MAKSIAT DAN BID'AH SECARA TERANG.

    Umpamanya: Minum arak secara terang terangan atau seorang guru agama yang mengajar ajaran-ajaran sesat seperti syirik dan bid'ah atau bomoh dan dukun yang menggunakan amalan amalan syirik. Kita diperbolehkan menyebut keburukan atau keaiban orang orang berkenaan supaya muslimin yang lain dapat sentiasa waspada dan tidak terpedaya oleh mereka. Tetapi dalam hal ini kita tidak boleh menceritakan cela mereka yang lain kecuali ada sebab-sebab lain yang membolehkannya sebagaimana tersebut diatas.

    6) SEBAGAI TANDA PENGENALAN.

    Andaikata seseorang dikenal dengan gelaran tertentu. Umpamanya: Mamat Pincang, Jali Sumbing, Enon Gendut dan lain-lain maka dibolehkan kita menyebut sifat-sifat tersebut tetapi dengan syarat tidak dengan nada atau tujuan menghina dan merendah rendahkan. Andaikata orang tersebut sudah dapat dikenal tanpa menggunakan gelaran-gelaran diatas maka itu adalah lebih baik.

    dipetik dari Forum Perbincangan Darul Numan

    www.tips-fb.com Not So NICE neighborhood

    What to say, if people dont like you, they will find everything you do wasn't up to their standard. Last nite, got two people from my neighborhood (a husband and wife) come and argue with me something that I felt was really ridiculous. Look like I need to move out after all. Never thought that living in a small town/ village in Kedah here is more hard to cope rather than living in Selangor. How I miss Damansara so much!

    How do I describe my feeling... I dont know... Its not easy to face people who despised you, but I dont want to be a coward by running away, but i dont think it worth it to stay among that kind of people. Yea.. I need to found a new place to live.

    www.tips-fb.com Sayang anak berpada-pada

    Tuesday, July 22, 2008
    A FATHER slapped a teacher after his son was disciplined for breaking a school rule, according to Harian Metro.
    It was learnt that the father, in his 40s, was angry when his son was detained for not wearing a singlet under his uniform.
    In the 8.45am incident, the elder brother came to the disciplinary room and verbally abused a female teacher after learning that his 14-year-old brother was taken there.
    The father came 25 minutes later and pulled his son out of the room.
    “The teacher couldn’t do anything because the father was aggressive,” said a source.
    He then took out his anger on a male teacher who tried to discuss the situation by slapping him in the face until it bled.
    Cheras OCPD Asst Comm Ahmad Amir Mohd Hashim said a report was lodged on the case.

    (The Star Online, 22/07/2008)

    p/s: I never think violence are ever the appropriate way to deal with anything, no matter whose fault it is, there's always a better way than resorting to violence :-?

    Remembering the time when a female teacher slap me in the face when in standard 3 for giving a childish rude comment to her, my parents juz scold me for not respecting the teacher even at that time I dont think its my fault

    www.tips-fb.com People ask me why?

    Monday, July 21, 2008
    Why do you rarely smile now?
    I have been thinking a lot lately

    What are you thinking about?
    I donno ...stuffs.. my life...

    U should smile...
    I am smiling :)

    U dont look happy
    Am I... Guess I am not a good actress

    Wish I could see more of your happy side...
    Let go somewhere, do something and give me 10k.. at least.. that would make me happy..

    Hahakss.. I could use that kind of money too...
    Aint we all..

    p/s: this is just a fictitious conversation only...


    www.tips-fb.com Be good to other muslims

    Narrated Abu Musa:
    Some people asked Allah's Apostle, "Whose Islam is the best? i.e. (Who is a very good Muslim)?" He replied, "One who avoids harming the Muslims with his tongue and hands."

    www.tips-fb.com Marriage and Love

    Friday, July 18, 2008
    Marriage is not a ritual or an end.
    It is a long, intricate,
    intimate dance together
    and nothing matters more
    than your own sense of balance
    and your choice of partner.


    - Amy Bloom -

    www.tips-fb.com I have issues

    Wednesday, July 16, 2008
    Aku rasa, jika aku dihadapkan dihadapan pakar sakit jiwa, pasti analisisnya aku ini mempunyai pelbagai isu yang tidak diselesaikan. Mungkin sebab itu juga aku mudah benar terjebak dalam segala emosi negatif yang akhirnya menjadikan aku seorang yang mudah marah, cepat terasa, mudah menyakiti diri sendiri, sentiasa mengharapkan tuhan mencabut nyawa dari jasadku ini. Aku fikir aku sudah sembuh dari sakit emosi ini, nampaknya, aku tidak pernah sembuh, hanya berjaya menyembunyikannya dari dikesan oleh diriku sendiri.

    Last Monday wasn't the best day for me. I was being blame for the fault which is not mine. An argument occurred and once again it drive me into 1001 of negative emotions. It quickly come to me that I wanted to be dead.. and I can stop lying to myself and pretend that happiness is just a step away. I wonder where all this negative emotion come from. Once I calm down and come to my senses, this emotion finally faded away, but not without living an empty hole in my heart. And it left me feeling really miserable.

    Tuesday was a public holiday. So to ease the stress, I went to see a movie. The only thing that I can do to forget about me by indulging myself to every character and scene and makes me feel happy, even tho it just a temporary solution. Watching Hellboy 2 really makes my day. Seriously, I love it, "I am ugly and want to fit in this world" does ring a bell to me :D

    After the movie, I thought everything should be fine now. No more stress but that wasn't what happen. Another argument erupted. I feel like giving up. I have to stop blaming myself. Remember my one and only instinct.. survival. I should do anything to survived, and blaming my own self doesnt help at all in anyway.

    That evening I went for cycling, then strolled along the road, watching the sun faded away with a beautiful orange color. I know people around me would look as if I am from another part of the planet, maybe also because of my dressing, but that would be the least thing that I would be worrying about. After the refreshing walked, I went back home and watch smallville, not that I am a fan but its better than anything that was shown on TV at the moment. Finally, I put myself to sleep and hoping that tomorrow would be better.

    Today, everything starts up lovely. Please let my day be as beautiful as the sun and cloud today.

    www.tips-fb.com Passing Time

    Monday, July 14, 2008
    Last Thursday I have a severe stomachace, so at 3.10pm, I call my honey to pick me up and went to see doctor. And the doctor gave me two days sick leave, looks like I have an early weeken la.. :D

    Nothing much happen on weeken. Sometime I feel happy, then sad then bored, but most of the time I feel miserable. Maybe I choose to be miserable... for what ever reason, I just feel so darn miserable...

    To day I wake up feeling miserable too, and the fact that I have to go back to work make me feel more miserable. Maybe I need to lite up a bit..

    huh.....

    www.tips-fb.com Brief

    Wednesday, July 09, 2008
    At least two thirds of our miseries spring from human stupidity, human malice and those great motivators and justifiers of malice and stupidity, idealism, dogmatism and proselytizing zeal on behalf of religious or political idols.


    -Aldous Huxley

    www.tips-fb.com Sekejap saja

    Tuesday, July 08, 2008
    Tanpa disedari, sedetik pun berlalu. Hari ini sudah menjelang Selasa, dan esok Rabu akan menjelma. Hari Rabu merupakan pertengahan hari dalam seminggu (mengikut waktu 5-hari bekerjalah) dan sekelip mata sahaja hujung minggu akan tiba sekali lagi. Walau pun baru hari Selasa, aku begitu teruja menantikan hujung minggu. Pelbagai aktiviti sudah berlegar-legar di kepalaku. Antaranya, aku ingin menyediakan satu masakan yang lengkap pada hari Sabtu ini.

    Apa yang ingin kumasak ya? Aku merancang untuk meyediakan ikan percik, kuih onde-onde, mungkin pucuk paku masak lemak cili padi dan mungkin juga sambal sotong. Aku tetiba terasa teringin untuk menjamah makanan itu semua. Terutama ikan percik dan onde-onde. Onde-onde memang menjadi kegemaranku, penyediaannya juga ringkas dan tidak memerlukan banyak bahan. Hanya perlukan tepung pulut, air daun pandan, gula melaka(berbentuk bulat tu) dan kelapa parut. Itu sahaja, dan ia hanya perlu direbus.

    Nampaknya, esok aku akan ke pasar malam lagi bagi mendapatkan segala keperluan untuk hidangan masakanku pasa hari Sabtu ini. Aku harap semuanya menjadi. Sudah sekian lama aku tidak mempraktiskan skil masakanku.

    All da best to me :D

    www.tips-fb.com Liars- Carburetor Dung

    Monday, July 07, 2008

    You’re lying through your teeth
    Throwing promises to the wind
    You want people to treat you right
    Betraying all your friends
    Pouring poison in our ears
    You’ve locked yourself within…
    Your pride

    Liar!

    What’s good in saying you’re sorry?
    You’re twisting your words around again
    The damage’s done
    You can’t unwind
    I’ve had enough of you my friend

    Liar!

    We used to be best friends
    Now I know I’m just a tool
    This time I’ve learned to hate…
    Your guts

    We won’t be the same again
    Don’t wanna be nobody’s fool
    Now there’s one thing we share…
    Distrust

    Liar!

    www.tips-fb.com My Yesterday

    Bye-bye weekends. Its monday again.. and early this morning we have a meeting that last about an hour plus. I hardly can keep my eys open.. thank god i didnt fall asleep. I feel so tired today.

    Well my weeken actually are full of activity. On Saturday morning, I went to the bicycle shop and bought myself a nice mountain bike. The colors are blue and silver. Nice enuff for me. Then I have a nice Nasi Ayam Periuk Besar for Branch (breakfast and lunch).

    Then I went to catch a movie (Hanckok) (first time since I moved out from Damansara), stars by Will Smith and Charlize Theron. It was a very good funny movie. But I cant wait for the Dark Knight to be showing. I love BATMAN so much.

    After the movie, went back home, and do some gardening. More to clearing out the lawn actually. Feel very tired, have dinner, watch TV and sleep.

    On Sunday morning. wake up at 630am then went cycling, (testing the new bike) at 7am. Around 8am, after buying three packs of nasi lemak, went home and have breakfast. went out again to the aquarium shop. Actually I was looking for black ghost knife fish, mine( nyet and blackie) died on the way travelling back from Damansara to my hometown. So sad... my blackie has grown so much. So I was thinking of replacing them. Anyway, there's no black ghost at the shop, I ended-up buying two Senegal Bichir (aka dragon fish by local), and one alligator gar (aka crocodile fish by local). I feel really excited, while I put them inside the aquarium, one of my bichir (yet to be named) eat a whole little prawn in one bite. Nice!!

    After setting up the aquarium, my mom calls, asking me to come to her "kedai kopi" for lunch. So I had free lunch which is very good on my budget.

    After come back for my mom's place, I continue to clear up the back lawn until around 7pm. Then went to pasar malam and send my brother back to my sister house. Went back home and sleep.

    Today, wake up feeling hungry and tired... and its monday.. OO..how I wish yesterday never end.

    www.tips-fb.com Samudera- Nora

    Friday, July 04, 2008

    Nyanyikan ku gemuruh di irama
    Melewati hamparan hati
    Ku menanti sejuta suara
    Yang memanggilku serikandi

    Di pasak maya pada
    Akan aku gegarkan
    Embun azimat nan sakti
    Dan bercurah awanan
    Akan aku luruhkan
    Menitis emas menghujan

    Ku serakkan tautan kiambang
    Sebelum ku jejaki gelombang

    Jika tak ku temu kekuatan
    Ku ratib semangat kebangkitan
    Lautan bergelora
    Tidak gentar ku rempuhi

    Pelayaranku, biar tenggelam tak melara
    Perjuanganku, sinarnya membelah samudera
    Sinarnya membelah samudera

    Cahaya lantera yang ku bawa
    Mengharungi perjalananku
    Lindungi dari badai prahara
    Tetap bertahan sanubari

    Ku serakkan tautan kiambang
    Sebelum ku jejaki gelombang

    Jika tak ku temu kekuatan
    Ku ratib semangat kebangkitan
    Lautan bergelora
    Tidak gentar ku rempuhi

    Pelayaranku, biar tenggelam tak melara
    Perjuanganku, sinarnya membelah samudera

    Jika tak ku temu kekuatan
    Ku ratib semangat kebangkitan
    Lautan bergelora
    Tidak gentar ku rempuhi

    Pelayaranku, biar tenggelam tak melara
    Perjuanganku, sinarnya membelah samudera
    Perjuanganku, sinarnya membelah samudera

    www.tips-fb.com Watashi wa nihongo o hanasenai - I can't speak Japanese

    watashi - I
    nihongo - japanese languange
    hanasu- speak
    hanasenai - cant speak

    Good Morning - Ohayo Gozaimasu (おはよございます)
    Good Afternoon - Konichiwa (こにちは)
    Good Evening - Konbanwa (こんばんは)
    Good Night - Oyasumi Nasai (おやすみなさい)

    There is another type of wishes where Japanese family will normally say :
    When you are going out from home, dormitory, office, etc
    You should say : Itte Kimasu (いってきます)- I’m going out
    They should reply : Itte Rasshai (いってらっしゃい)- Take care yourself

    When you return home, office, dormitory, etc
    You should say : Tadaima (ただいま)- I’m Home
    They should reply : O Kaeri Nasai (おかえりなさい)- Welcome Back

    www.tips-fb.com Life like that

    Thursday, July 03, 2008
    Why does people tend to judge others rather than get to know them first... but is there anything about us that people need to know before passing any judgement?

    We tend to jump into conclusions without having any second tots on what mite be the reason for anybody to behave the way they are. but is there ever any good reason for anyone to behave the way they do??

    Nobody are to be blame but then why are many have to go through the silent punishment..

    I dont care what other people think of me? Really..do you really believe its true?? Erm, I do care about what my family would say, and the one I care thinks.. and I dont want people to misjudge me.. then am I really putting aside what people say about me..

    Conclusion, we juz cant run from what the society make us to be.. even if we try hard enuff...

    Do we really that stupid of thinking that if we juz ignore people, people wont notice us, if we dont disturb people, people wont feel disturb by our present? or if we entertain people, they would like us..

    All of us actually are a bunch of hypocrite actors and actresses trying to find our own place in this messed up stage of life. Whatever we claim ourselves to be are juz to justified our action and saying that this is what and who we are and other people has no right to say otherwise.

    We are back to square one... who are we actually?? and why is it so important for us to get to know ourself??

    www.tips-fb.com Back Again

    After a serious sh** storm happening to my life, i decided its time for me to be back online.. because:

    1) The current changes I have in life.. new place, new partner, new environment and new me
    2) I am kinda bored

    and i think the second excuse says it all :D

    so.. here I am.. I'm back